Presence Ministry

Credibility is most certainly (and quickly) gained through physical presence. The old saying is quite true, quote it with me, “People don’t care how much you know, until they know how much you care.” As cliché as it is, it still holds true. In parenting, many parents have bought into the lie of quality time. This is sad, because what kids need (and are formed by) is quantity time. Time with a person is both formation and instructional. The only way to get to know a person is by spending time with them, and in a variety of settings and experiences. It is true in parenting as it is true in ministering.


The ministry of presence can speak more to a person than words. This is especially true in crisis and grief situations. Within the first few months of coming on staff at my church, the father of one of my teens suddenly died from a massive heart attack. I had very few words to offer to this teen for comfort. In fact, she really didn't need any more words. She needed to know I was there for her. I stayed with her and the family as much as possible (and as was appropriate for the situation).


Looking at the example of Jesus, the disciples spent almost all their time with Jesus. As disciples and under-studies, they knew the way to truly know the teacher was to commit to time with him. Even though they scattered during the crucifixion, the results speak for themselves when their fear and mourning turned to furious, faithful zeal after the resurrection. What they knew about Jesus was fueled by their faith.


Physical presence gains credibility because of what it says to the other. It effectively says, “I have no better place to be than here right now.” It conveys value and worth to the other by saying, “Being with you is well worth my time and effort.” It distinguishes the other by affirming them and saying, “You are important to me; you are loved.”


Our role as a shepherd, then, is one of solidarity with the people. This is different than being “one of them;” instead it is “one with them.” Our people need to see us around them, doing things with them, and being one present with them in the Spirit.